Janet Roller

2011-01-11T16:05:00.000-08:00

Live on Display

2011-01-08T16:01:00.000-08:00

Living on display comes with consequence. The year I was Miss South Carolina, I received many interesting gifts. Some were savable and others – not so much. I kept all the special items in their original packaging in the basement. One treasure was a limited edition plate I received at the 100th Anniversary of Pepsi. I know, wow. I decided it would be better to enjoy my “pretties”, so I took the plate out of its perfectly fitted blue box and bought a special gold rack for it.

For years, it remained unharmed, safely nestled on the wall. Today, however, I heard the sound that can only be breaking glass – not like a drinking glass or window; the dull thud of china echoing as it hits ceramic.

I hurried around the corner to find my prized piece broken beyond repair. The once smiling woman on the simple print was now beheaded and shattered.

A flood of emotions filled me. I wanted to comfort the guilty plate breaker by saying it didn’t matter because it was an accident. But it did matter. I felt angry. I felt like something that meant so much to me was taken.

My internal dialogue raced as I searched for a response.
I guess I can’t have anything.
IF it was yours you would have been more careful.
I never should have taken it out of the box.
In an effort not to respond at all, I turned and walked to my room and did what every spiritually mature woman in her 30’s should do – I slammed the door.

Stewing and sifting through the next emotions, the sound of sweeping and a dustpan dumping the shards into a trashcan pierced my ear. With each piece clanging against the other, my heart ached as the piece seemed to break all over again.

When the kitchen was cleared, I walked out to see the broken pieces lying on top of tea bags, chicken bones and coffee grounds. I left them there for a while. Then God began to speak. People may not see the value in brokenness but God does.

Carefully I brought each piece from the trash and placed the collection on the counter. After a few minutes, all pieces were together except one – the woman’s face. Careful not to shift any wet paper towels, I went back to the trashcan to retrieve the missing piece. There she was – lying face town in a heap of trash. Now with all the pieces were in place, with new cracks of character, the once perfect prize seemed better with the cracks.

We can be like that plate. We keep ourselves protected for so many years so no one can hurt us. When we finally put ourselves “out there,” the possibility of getting injured, hurt or disappointed is inevitable. When we do, we have a choice. Do we stay in the scrap pile or do we allow God to piece us back together?

Friends, God’s Word said we were made for display, cracks and all. Our imperfections and spiritual scars only make our relationship with Christ more precious. He is perfect – so we don’t have to be. HIS scars have made a Way for us to receive righteousness.

Christians tend to hide behind their Sunday morning smiles and pretend all is well when they are shattered inside. It’s time to get real with each other and serve with transparency. The times I’ve been reliant on God enough to share with my fellow believers about what I’m struggling with have been times of refreshing and healing for all involved.

Isaiah 61:3 tells us “He will give a crown of beauty instead of ashes, oil of joy for mourning and a garment of praise for a spirit of despair.” Many of us want the crown, joy and praise without the ashes, mourning and despair. Suffering-free lives don’t exist on this side of Heaven – but redemption for sin does. Isaiah goes on to say, “so we may be Oaks of Righteousness on display for His glory.”

We don’t endure hardships for our benefit. We endure through Christ to build our testimony of His Grace toward us.

No matter what your past includes, live on display for His glory. Your cracks and imperfections may bring healing to someone else. We are all in this life together to bring God glory.

Live on display.

Root or Fruit?

2011-01-05T05:24:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I heard a good "nugget" on Pastor Greg Laurie's broadcast. Maybe you'll appreciate it too.

He asked, "Is it a root problem or a fruit problem?"

Think about that. In our spiritual lives, we often attribute our sin to the result or "fruit" of our actions instead of the base or "root" of them.
Ex: "If I could just get rid of my credit card debt, my life would be better. These credit cards are killing me!"

While that may be true, the root of the debt is not the credit card. The debt is the fruit of the sin. The root is covetousness or selfishness. Now, please understand, I'm not referring to those who are resorting to credit to stay afloat in a terrible economy. However, for the rest of us, the "gotta have it" that ran up the bills stemmed from discontentment. That's a root problem.

Christ gets to the root of the matter. Today, as you struggle with issues in your life, decide whether they are the fruit of larger issue. Then, ask God to show and remove the root.

Happy New Year!

2011-01-04T05:00:00.000-08:00

2011. Wasn't it just a few years ago when we were gonna' "party like it's 1999"? Now what?

In the month of resolutions, I have searched my mind and heart for some changes that need to be made in my life. I don't make resolutions - anymore. I've done that and then feel like a big ole' failure when I don't get up earlier...or lose 30 pounds.

I will not make plans that don't have an end. "Getting healthy" and "growing closer to God" are daily disciplines that won't be determined by a calendar. Each day, I begin again to make that day count in those areas.

This year, I'm making plans and placing them at the foot of the cross. My plans are big but His plans are always better!

With my speaking schedule a little lighter in the coming months, I have set a few goals: finish & print my testimony book (really close), complete the music project I'm currently working on, and finish my fiction book before the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference in May. (I would be happy getting really close to finishing.)

Accomplishing these goals will not define me; however, God convicted my heart a few years ago about finishing what I start. Unfinished sewing and craft projects in a box in the basement haunt me when I think of the time invested with no satisfaction of completion.

New year. New beginnings. New completions. New Direction.

2011 Autumn in the Mountains Novelist Retreat at Ridgecrest!

2010-11-17T10:27:00.000-08:00

Christian Devotions SPEAK UP Blogtalk Radio

2010-11-10T05:10:00.000-08:00

Tuesday was a busy day of recording in the studio and with a studio. After a full day working on a new music project at Rushing Winds Music Studio in Dallas, NC, my day wrapped up by talking with Scott McCausey at Christian Devotions SPEAK UP Blogtalk Radio from 6-7pm EST.

Thanks, Scott!

Cool Stuff!

2010-09-29T20:10:00.000-07:00

I'm excited to announce that I will be published in Charles Stanley's In Touch Magazine and Focus on the Family's Thriving Family magazine in December.

Next week I am serving on faculty at the LifeWay's Autumn in the Mountains Novelist Retreat at Ridgecrest. I can't wait to learn from experienced writers while I work on my first fiction project.

I found out today I'm the keynote for South Carolina's DHEC Annual Training Retreat again this year.

God is leading...and I'm following. Praise His name!

Mouse Trap

2010-09-22T05:22:00.001-07:00

When speaking at a recent weekend conference, the end was nearing and I approached the final moments of our time together with an invitation for Salvation. The mood was reverent and mighty.

Just as I finished reading scriptures of the woman at the well, the final line of Jesus’ words, “your sins are forgiven now go in peace” was met with an interesting response.

The entire auditorium seemed to gasp simultaneously. Wow! What a reaction, I thought. I know the Word is powerful but I have never had such a reaction!

Just as my mind was processing the response and praying internally about the next words to say, a lady on the front row explained the corporate inhale.

“A mouse just ran across the stage.”

Not missing a beat, I turned with an outstretched hand and repeated the last words of the recently read scripture, “Go in peace." I continued, "Well, in the garden he came as a serpent. Today, he comes as a mouse.”

Ladies chuckled and I felt assured I had handled an uncomfortable moment with poise, grace and humor.

But, guess what – no one came for the alter call. The spirit of the moment was shattered. Salvation for someone was postponed. The distraction of a tiny mouse made the reverent moment - irrelevant.

I have thought about that day over and over. As I joked about Satan coming as a serpent, I realized that was absolutely true. He uses small distractions in our lives to get our minds off the Most High moments. That day, the mouse accomplished the goal.

What are your distractions? Don't fall into the trap. Recognize the attempts to draw you away from God’s presence and perfect plan in your life and keep your eyes on Him.

Meet Me at the Well

2010-07-22T06:13:00.000-07:00

We’ve been there: Sitting in a church service, Bible study, Sunday school class, women’s conference, men’s conference or work when someone spouts off about their new adventure in life. In a church setting, some may even attribute the blessing of opportunity to God’s faithfulness and calling in their lives. And there you sit. Wondering. With every word of her wonderful news, you know you should genuinely feel happy for her, but you wonder about your own opportunities instead. Why hasn’t God opened those doors for me? Am I living out my purpose? Does God even have a plan for my life?

Objectively, we know God does have a plan for each of us but if you’ve ever wondered what that plan was, you’re not alone. Satan would like you to think you are the only one in a crowd of the “blessed” who isn’t living up to what you’re supposed to be. Ignore those lies and cling to Truth.

For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future”. Jeremiah 29:11

God has a plan for each of us.

The woman at the well thought her life’s path was in place until she had an encounter with God. We never learn her name, only that she is a Samaritan. Samaritans have appeared in several places in the bible and this mixed race of people was hated among other groups. No respectable Jewish man would dare talk to a woman of this race in public, let alone ask her for a drink. But He did.

The Samaritan woman said to him, “you are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?" John 4:9

I’ve often wondered what motivation was behind her question. The scripture concludes with a clarifying statement. “For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.” Perhaps years of enduring a scowling eye from the Jewish people gave her the fortitude to say how can you ask me to serve you? Maybe she was protecting Him. Don’t you know you’re not supposed to talk to me? I’m not worthy to talk to you. Or did she have her own reputation in mind? What will my family say if they see me talking to a Jew?

No matter what her internal dialogue or motivation, Jesus met her at the well.

Many of us can relate to this woman. Maybe you feel looked down on by the “good Christians” in town because you don’t quite fit in. Perhaps you don’t feel worthy because you’ve done things you’re not proud of in your life. Or maybe your feel God calling you closer to His side but you aren’t sure what your family or friends will think if you turn into a “goodie two shoes Christian”.

No matter what the motivation, only thirsty people come to wells. If you have felt a tug on your heart and dryness in your soul, Jesus is ready to meet you at your well with Living Water. He has a plan and you’re in it.

Why You Don't Want To Go To "She Speaks"!

2010-03-25T05:11:00.000-07:00

Ladies, let me warn you...if you LIKE sitting on your couch mulling over the decisions of the day, just to look up and realize you've let another day go by without stepping toward your goals...don't go to She Speaks!

Don't go to the She Speaks Conference if you don't want to be inspired.
Lysa Terkeurst is amazingly connected to God in her attitude and convictions. Her common sense and "we're all in this together" approach to women inspires others to step out in faith and say "yes" when God calls! Lysa is just ONE of the amazing speakers on the P31 team! From the speaker evaluation groups where attendees share their stories to the brilliant session leaders testifying of God's faithfulness, She Speaks inspires. Whether you are a writer, speaker or women's ministry leader, chances are you have had moments in a "rut". Hearing stories of how others made it beyond the bumps of life will give you the boost you need to keep moving for God.

Don't go to the She Speaks Conference if you don't want to be motivated.
Women need other women to pump them up! You'll meet women in all stages of ministry who want to form an encouraging network of believers that will last beyond the weekend conference. Motivation helps you plow through the days when your "want to" doesn't measure up to your "need to". Between soccer practices and school projects, we lose motivation to move toward my own goals and projects. Meeting other women who have similar aspirations will make you feel less "alone" in your efforts to drive your ministry. She Speaks helps equip you to remove the excuses and do more!

Don't go to the She Speaks Conference if you don't want to be educated.
Gifts need direction. God ultimately will open the doors for your ministry but He wants us to pursue opportunities to gain knowledge. If you are a speaker, the speaker's evaluation groups help hone your craft through allowing you to present a short speech with a small group. The feedback is invaluable! Writers can meet with other writers, agents and publishers and glean from their experiences. Women's Ministry Leaders can meet with other ladies in sessions to hear what worked in their churches...and what didn't work! God gives the message. She Speaks helps you get it out to His people.

I NEED inspiration, motivation and education!
Winning a scholarship to this year's She Speaks Conference would be the mid-year boost I long for to help me reach the writing and speaking goals God has placed in my heart. I want to reach others with the written and spoken Word of God in the best way I can. She Speaks can help me do that.

How about you? Click here to find out more about sessions and registration! I hope to see you there July 30-August 1, 2010.

I Hope You Dance

2010-03-08T04:52:00.000-08:00

Yesterday at church, after settling all the kids up front for the lesson, the children's pastor spoke to the children about spiritual gifts and strengths. When he asked if any of them had any gifts, my Sam raised his hand. I'm always a little nervous when Sam raises his hand.

"Sam, what's your gift?"
"Dancing"
Inserting another promotion for the church talent show that evening, he said, "oh, are you going to dance for us tonight?"
"No. My mom won't let me."

Of course, the congregation erupted in laughter and then the pastor moved on with his lesson.

That night, the "show" was concluding and someone said, "let's see what Sam can do." Chants of encouragement drove him to the stage for an impromptu display.

Sam has never been shy but I never would have thought he would "bust a move" in front of a room full of people so freely.
See for yourself...

Whatever God has for Sam, I hope he acts in complete freedom. No matter what the task, I pray he dances before the Lord with all his might...after all, his middle name is David.

Today, pay no attention to the thoughts that tell you to hold back. Be big and bold for God. No matter what size the crowd, perform for an audience-of-One. And as the country song states, "If you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance!"

The Angels Sang, "Aaahhhh"

2010-03-04T05:20:00.000-08:00

I love when I read the Bible and have a "holy highlighter moment"! You know, when you come across a passage of scripture that seems to be just for you. I could almost hear the chorus of angels sing their unified tone when my eyes took it in...aaahhhhh.

You see, yesterday, I added a little to a writing project about knowing your calling. I am not an expert...just a fellow wanderer in this life and I wanted to know what God says about His plan for each of us. In my recent conversations, people want to know why they are "here". Have they served their life's purpose if they don't travel around the world and rescue children from burning buildings? Afterall, isn't that what being a "Christian" is all about?

Before I began writing, I stopped and prayed. I can't say I do this every time. Sometimes I feel so inspired while making a bed or sweeping something that I drop my task and quickly record it in writing. Yesterday was different. I felt lead to write but I didn't know what direction to take. So, I prayed.

Before I could even take in the moment fully, God made me keenly aware that our FIRST calling from Him is salvation. Without the relationship with Him and assurance of eternity, how can we expect to serve Him fully on earth? So I wrote and wrote. A little heavy for a first chapter, I thought. But then...this morning my Bible reading quickly lead me to this passage.

"...we are confident of better things in your case - things that accompany salvation." Hebrews 6:9

God allows blessings in our lives and clarity of calling is one of them. However, without Salvation, we miss the better things because we've bypassed the BEST thing.

Search your heart. If you're trying to serve Him without salvation, it's just busyness. Dedicate your life to Him today. Whether you ever lead a mighty crusade or save starving orphans in a third world country, answering His call will be the best decision you make.

100% Chance

2010-03-02T05:26:00.000-08:00

Nothing makes a little one run to the window in the morning like the promise of snow in the South. Although this year is a little different, it's normally rare to see snow more than once a winter in South and North Carolina. Forecasters promised snow today...100%. However, when we woke to find dry, grassy yards, the morning routine ensued.

I have to admit, I've looked out the window every five minutes since I took them to school! The promise of snow is still there...it's just a matter of when.

We are expectant because the promise is sure.

Isn't that how Christians should react to the promise of Christ's return? Although we live our lives and return to routines, the expectancy of His return should make our hearts crane toward Heaven.

"No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father...Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come."
Matthew 24:35 & 42

His return is 100%...it's just a matter of when. Be ready.

The Ripple Effect

2010-02-26T04:48:00.000-08:00

This morning I picked up Streams in the Desert, a 366-day devotional, with hopes of grasping a "God-nugget" just for me. I did.

Yesterday on facebook, a lifelong family friend commented on my recent YouTube video in which I sang and shared a very brief testimony. My testimony centers around the Christian example my mother showed all before passing away in 1996. He, now a nurse, commented that he still shares the story of my mother's complete faith in God to heal her in spite of her pain from cancer. He also went on to say he could still hear her singing and playing the piano in his mind.

My mother was a wonderful lady who LOVED God and, in a gentle way, let everyone know it. Now, 14 years after her passing, a young man who was probably 10-years-old when she died, is commenting to strangers about her testimony of faith. Wow.

"Do the most everyday and insignificant tasks knowing that God can see. If you live with difficult people, win them over through love. If you once made a great mistake in life, do not allow it to cloud the rest of your life, but by locking it secretly in your heart, make it yield strength and character.

We are doing more good than we know. The things we do today - sowing seeds or sharing simple truths of Christ - people will someday refer to as the first things that prompted them to think of Him. For my part, I will be satisfied not to have some great tombstone over my grave but just to know that common people will gather there once I am gone and say, "He was a good man. He never performed any miracles, but he told me about Christ, which lead me to know Him for myself." (George Matheson,Streams in the Desert, February 24)

Today, you may encounter someone at work, school or the grocery store who doesn't know what Christ "looks like". Pray for wisdom and discernment and live your life to represent Him...the eternal ripple effects are endless.

And there came a lion...

2010-02-23T06:07:00.000-08:00

This morning I read from the devotional "Streams in the Desert." Some devotions resonate more than others. I can't shake this one. So...I thought I would post it. I hope you get something out of it, too!

"It is a source of inspiration and strength to us to remember how the youthful David trusted God. Through his faith in the Lord, he defeated a lion and a bear and later overthrew the mighty Goliath. When the lion came to destroy his flock it came as a wonderful opportunity for David. If he had faltered and failed, he would have missed God's opportunity for him and probably would never have been the Lord's chosen king of Israel.

"And then there came a lion" (I Samuel 17:34). Normally we think of a lion not as a special blessing from the Lord but only as a reason for alarm. Yet the lion was God's opportunity in disguise. Every difficulty and every temptation that comes our way, if we receive it correctly, is God's opportunity.

When a "lion" comes to your life, recognize it as an opportunity from the Lord, no matter how fierce it may outwardly seem. May the Lord open our eyes to see Him, even in temptations, trials, dangers and misfortunes."

What's your lion story? Can you look back on your life and recognize a scary situation or temptation that changed the course of your journey? Maybe you're facing a potentially deadly attacker and wonder if you will make it through this one. Stand strong. Through Christ, fight the fight and know...God can use ALL things for His glory and we are MORE THAN CONQUERORS through Him.

Don't Forget God

2010-02-22T19:27:00.000-08:00

Deuteronomy 8:11-20 (The Message)

"Make sure you don't forget God, your God, by not keeping his commandments, his rules and regulations that I command you today. Make sure that when you eat and are satisfied, build pleasant houses and settle in, see your herds and flocks flourish and more and more money come in, watch your standard of living going up and up—make sure you don't become so full of yourself and your things that you forget God, your God,

the God who delivered you from Egyptian slavery;
the God who led you through that huge and fearsome wilderness, those desolate, arid badlands crawling with fiery snakes and scorpions;
the God who gave you water gushing from hard rock;
the God who gave you manna to eat in the wilderness, something your ancestors had never heard of, in order to give you a taste of the hard life, to test you so that you would be prepared to live well in the days ahead of you.

If you start thinking to yourselves, "I did all this. And all by myself. I'm rich. It's all mine!"—well, think again. Remember that God, your God, gave you the strength to produce all this wealth so as to confirm the covenant that he promised to your ancestors—as it is today.

If you forget, forget God, your God, and start taking up with other gods, serving and worshiping them, I'm on record right now as giving you firm warning: that will be the end of you; I mean it—destruction. You'll go to your doom—the same as the nations God is destroying before you; doom because you wouldn't obey the Voice of God, your God."

YOUR JOURNEY…

Take some time to write out what God has done for you. Let it be an exercise in remembering His goodness and grace in your life!

Janet Roller - Need Motivation?

2010-02-21T20:54:00.001-08:00

This motivational message was delivered at the SC WIC Annual Meeting in 2009. For more information about having Janet at your event, contact her at www.janetroller.com.

Photo and video editing at www.OneTrueMedia.com

2010-01-29T05:21:00.000-08:00

Set me free from my prison, that I may praise your name. Then the righteous will gather about me because of your goodness to me.
Psalm 142:7 NIV

2010-01-28T03:59:00.000-08:00

Today's Verse
God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship him in spirit and in truth.
— John 4:24 (NIV)

Thoughts on Today's Verse...
Genuine worship is a gift. Since God is spirit, since he is holy, we cannot fully approach him without the gift and blessing of his Holy Spirit. As Christians who received his Spirit when we were baptized into Christ and born of God, we can now speak to him and worship him Spirit to Spirit.

My Prayer...
Father, by the gift of your Spirit I come to you as your child. Thank you so much for giving me your Spirit so that I can approach you with confidence and know you hear the concerns of my heart. Please accept the worship of my heart, of my words, and of my actions. May the things I do each day bring you glory. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

Taken from www.verseoftheday.com

BRMCWC

2010-01-25T07:08:00.000-08:00

I am very excited to add a booking date to my calendar today. Yesterday it was confirmed that I will be leading worship for the Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writers Conference at Rigecrest Conference Center, May 16-20.

I attended the conference in 2008 (thanks to a scholarship provided by Cec Murphey)and have been aching to return. Now, I will return to soak in all of the knowledge from noted authors like Al Gansky, Jerry Jenkins, Angela Hunt, Deb Raney, Yvonne Lehman, Eva Marie Everson and, of course, Cec Murphey! I cannot express how honored and excited I am to be a part of such a wonderful event. May God be glorified!

Decisions, Decisions!

2009-11-18T08:42:00.000-08:00

Saturday, November 14th, I had the privilege of being a part of Belmont Baptist's Ladies Tea. The event was in Gainesville, Ga. The men of the church cooked and served the women! I liked that :) Each table had a hostess responsible for decorating in a theme. From fine china to mason jars, the details were terrific. One lady hunter even dressed her table in camouflage and hung a deer head over the table!

I met a lady named "Beulah Land"...no kidding.

Below is a follow-up e-mail from the coordinator of the event.

Janet,
Thank you so much for coming and sharing with us. You did an incredible job and everyone had great things to say about you. Even our youth were impressed and that's a hard thing to accomplish. My older daughter lost a very close cheerleader friend to a brain aneurysm this past January and she said your message spoke straight to her. On Sunday, a lot of the older ladies told me they thoroughly enjoyed your songs and your humor. Several asked how I had found you. When I went through the response cards, 2 marked that they prayed for salvation and 4 prayed to rededicate their lives. PTL!! I am so thankful that Amy led me to you. It was simply wonderful. Keep up the good work, God is obviously doing great things through you. I will continue to pray for your ministry. May God bless!
~Lois

Two Decisions for Salvation and 4 Rededications!
God is so good!

What Does It All Mean??

2009-11-03T04:01:00.000-08:00

After having an assignment to look up and write definitions of his spelling words for homework, Sam said, "I have never seen any adult looking up words in a dictionary. Can't we just use the computer?"

I kind of agree. I tried to explain that adults know most of the definitions :) I'm not sure he bought it.

Family Circus Moment

2009-11-02T08:10:00.000-08:00

Roller Quote of the Day

"Sam, you don't have any toys in your pockets today, do you?"
"No, Mom. If you don't believe me, go look all over my floor in my room."

That should be in Family Circus.

"I'm Ready!"

2009-11-02T05:38:00.000-08:00

This morning my mind flashed back to the time when my son was 3-years-old. He was excited about going to visit overnight with his cousins. I noticed his turtle-shaped overnight bag was packed and waiting by the door but I assumed my husband had prepared it for the trip. He assumed the same about me. In an effort to make sure he hadn’t left anything out, I unzipped the sweet suitcase for one last inspection. I couldn’t believe my eyes.

Tucked inside the green fabric case was a motley assortment of items: one pair of fuzzy flannel pajama pants, a Christmas bear sweater vest and a miniature football. “Who packed this bag?” I asked, knowing the answer already. “I did,” Sam stated proudly. “I’m ready to go!”

My heart couldn’t contain the chuckles as my mind flashed pictures of him playing football the next day in a pair of flannel pj pants and a sweater vest.

He thought he was ready. In reality, he didn’t even know what he needed to be “ready” – he just grabbed a few things he knew he liked and settled in for the trip. That’s why he has parents.

I wonder how many times I thought I was “ready” to move on to the next thing on my journey. Did God look at my preparation and chuckle? Was I focused on the soft and cuddly things, the fun things or things that just didn’t matter much?

How do we know the difference between what matters and just what matters to us?

1. Search for God’s Will.
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be
given to you as well. Matthew 6:33
Is what you want to do God’s best for you? Pray for open and shut doors. I recently interviewed for a great job in my area. I prayed going into it that I would have favor but I also prayed that God would make it abundantly clear if this door should be shut. Slam. I will admit, the closed door does sometimes feel like it hits your nose. I was disappointed, at first. But then I became excited knowing God had something even better in mind if He wanted my time free from the stress of a new position. Instead, I devoted a larger portion of my time preparing for the ministry He has already placed before me.

2. Ask for direction during your journey.
Direct my footsteps according to your word; let no sin rule over me. Psalm 119:133
Every day is a battle for my time. When the children go to school and I’m at home alone, it is so easy to hit that soft, cool pillow and snooze the morning away. I have done that. Instead, now I ask God to direct my calendar and my list for the day. What should I be doing with this day, God? What will please You? The pleasure of obedience is much more gratifying than a few more hours of sleep.

3. Get up and move.
From the days of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of heaven has been forcefully advancing, and forceful men lay hold of it. Matthew 11:12
We all have a responsibility to advance the kingdom. Each person has different skills and talents. Ask God where your place is within His current work. Most of us want to be used in a big way and we think the only “big” thing we can do is serve in a foreign country or raising lots of money for a cause. God’s kingdom is in our homes. Mothers and fathers have enormous responsibilities in their own children. Teach them about God. Actively serve with them. Advance the kingdom together.

God wants us to move and prepare with an eager heart. Today, ask Him what He wants you to do with your day. You may need a Christmas bear sweater vest.

If I Had to Introduce Christ to a Room Full of People...

2009-10-02T17:39:00.000-07:00

More Ice, Please.

2009-09-24T07:05:00.000-07:00

Our ice maker went out so I bought some ice trays yesterday. Sam asked me why I had blue egg cartons...he had NEVER seen an ice tray! What are we doing to our youth of today?? Every kid should experience the twisting, popping, filling and balancing!

My kids think it is the coolest thing ever. They keep going to the freezer to "check" if the water has changed. Maybe I should have waited until Christmas to unveil this trendy new gadget.

Sometimes it's the simple things that bring us back to basics. I have taken an Interim position as Music Director at a local church. Over the past 10 years, Matt and I have served in churches with music programs that included large choirs, bands and orchestras. This church has a piano and organ (played by two very capable musicians). The absence of strings and drums was shocking at first. But now, I find myself really focusing on the message of the songs - which is what it's all about anyway.

The bottom-line is: Whether you have an electric ice maker or ice trays...you still get ice to cool your drink. Whether you have a huge choir and band or a small choir and keyboard, if you are worshipping with what you have, God is pleased.

Technology!!!

2009-09-21T09:09:00.001-07:00

Just wanted to cover my bases today...
I have had several "Contact Form" submissions on my website today. Unfortunately the host has had a hiccup and when I received the form, they were blank! Not great for returning phone calls!!!

IF YOU HAVE SENT A SUBMISSION TODAY OR IN THE LAST TWO WEEKS...resend, please! The problem has been addressed and I want to hear from you!

Thanks,
Janet

God is Doing Big Stuff!

2009-09-08T12:25:00.000-07:00

Busy week coming up! Gold Party tomorrow night, singing at luncheon and starting my new job at Mt. Vernon Baptist Wednesday, Bible study Thursday, driving to Raleigh Friday to write music with Babs, emceeing a bridal show and beginning our 4-day revival at Mt. Vernon Sunday...whooh!

I found out Sunday that I'll be opening the show for "The Hoppers" in May! They are coming to be a part of the Carolina Gospel Association's Concert Series. I am so excited!!!

God is doing big stuff!

Goodbye, Good Buddy.

2009-09-04T19:25:00.000-07:00

Just got back home from the grocery store and found Matt and Sam in the backyard setting plastic army men on fire. I feel like I should record this date in Sam's baby book.

I can't believe the things you say when you're a parent..."now honey, you know you're not supposed to burn your army men unless your daddy's with you, right?"

What is it about Summer?

2009-07-15T07:10:00.000-07:00

What is it about summer? The lack of schedule and constant travel is a sure way to get off schedule with God. No Spirit rain equals dryness of the soul. I’m there…and so are many of the ladies I’ve talked to recently.

It’s easy to do: the kids sleep in, so do you. Mornings usually reserved for soulful conversations are now replaced with deep bed-lines across your face, telling a different story. Before long, the rut of dryness becomes deeper than any crease in the face…and the soul desperately longs for moisture.

I’ve been presented with a few decisions for the future and I can’t make a discernment-based decision without time in The Word. This morning I put myself in the book where wisdom is found.

Proverbs 2 (New International Version)
Moral Benefits of Wisdom

1 My son, if you accept my words
and store up my commands within you,
2 turning your ear to wisdom
and applying your heart to understanding,
3 and if you call out for insight
and cry aloud for understanding,
4 and if you look for it as for silver
and search for it as for hidden treasure,
5 then you will understand the fear of the LORD
and find the knowledge of God.
6 For the LORD gives wisdom,
and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.

Sometimes I slip into a mode of spoiled expectancy...waiting for God to just shine a big beam on the right path. After reading this passage, I italicized what's required of me in order to receive wisdom from God: in a word - action. I must actively seek Him and THEN I will receive wisdom, knowledge and understanding (v6).

I'm feeling a few drops already.

Spring 2009

2009-04-29T17:23:00.001-07:00

I continue to be amazed by God's ability to take my meger offering and use it for His glory. This Spring has been filled with wonderful opportunities to share His message of love and comfort.

The Taylors First Baptist Womens' Conference a The Cove was a time of breaking down strongholds as we studied the Battle of Jericho.
Here we are enjoying the final day of sunshine and beautiful views.

Among the other events this Spring was the Extreme Spiritual Makeover at Cliffside Baptist. I was fortunate to be a part of it last year as well. This year, however, I served with my precious sister-in-law, Alison.
Here we are...the "holy Roller's".

The team...Kelly Parkison, Alison Roller, Carol Davis and me.

My blogging has taken a "back burner" due to a busier schedule after I took a part-time job at a local elementary school. My search for a little more cash flow has revealed itself as much more. My eyes have been opened to so many situations in the little one's lives. Please pray that I will be "Jesus" to them. I believe I'm there for a purpose...for such a time as this.

Extreme Spiritual Makeover 2009 - Cliffside Baptist!

2009-03-17T16:29:00.000-07:00

For ticket information: click here!

That's My King D'You Know HIM???

2009-03-16T19:56:00.001-07:00

From Dr. Shadrach Meshach (S.M.) Lockridge's famous sermon.

The Bible says my King is the King of the Jews.
He's the King of Israel.
He's the King of righteousness.
He's the King of the ages.
He's the King of Heaven.
He's the King of glory.
He's the King of kings, and He's the Lord of lords.
That's my King. I wonder...Do you know Him?

My King is a sovereign King.
No means of measure can define his limitless love.
He's enduringly strong.
He's entirely sincere.
He's eternally steadfast.
He's immortally graceful.
He's imperially powerful.
He's impartially merciful.
Do you know Him?

He's the greatest phenomenon that has ever crossed the horizon of this world.
He's God's Son.
He's the sinner's Savior.
He's the peak of civilization.
He's unparalleled.
He's unprecedented.
He is the loftiest idea in literature.
He's the highest personality in philosophy.
He's the fundamental doctrine of true theology.
He's the only one qualified to be an all-sufficient Savior.
I wonder if you know Him today.

He supplies strength for the weak.
He's available for the tempted and the tried.
He sympathizes and He saves. He strengthens and sustains.
He guards and He guides.
He heals the sick.
He cleanses the lepers.
He forgives sinners.
He discharges debtors.
He delivers the captives.
He defends the feeble.
He blesses the young.
He serves the unfortunate.
He regards the aged.
He rewards the diligent, and He beautifies the meager.
I wonder if you know Him.

He's the key to knowledge.
He's the wellspring of wisdom.
He's the doorway of deliverance.
He's the pathway of peace.
He's the roadway of righteousness.
He's the highway of holiness.
He's the gateway of glory.
Do you know Him?

Well, His light is matchless.
His goodness is limitless.
His mercy is everlasting.
His love never changes.
His word is enough.
His grace is sufficient.
His reign is righteous, and His yoke is easy and His burden is light.
I wish I could describe Him to you! Yes, He's indescribable.
He's incomprehensible.
He's invincible.
He's irresistible.
You can't get Him out of your mind.
You can't get Him off of your head.
You can't outlive Him, and you can't live without Him.
Well, the Pharisees couldn't stand Him but they found out they couldn't stop Him. Pilate couldn't find any fault in Him.
Herod couldn't kill Him.
Death couldn't handle Him, and the grave couldn't hold Him.

I wonder if you know Him.

2009 Snow!!!

2009-03-02T07:14:00.000-08:00

Shalom = Peace

2009-02-28T17:46:00.000-08:00

This weekend I had the privilege of being a part of the Shalom Women's Conference with Fairview Mountain Ministries. A precious group of women gathered on the top of Cherry Mountain in North Carolina for a time of encouragement and Bible study.

The picture above is just one of the beautiful scenes along the road to the top of the steep, rain-slick path. This was not terrain that I'm used to driving. (I'm normally clinging to the passenger-side door while Matt handles the road.)

Even on the rainy day, the atmosphere was peaceful and God-filled. We all came together for one purpose...to encounter Shalom Jehovah - The God of Peace.

2009-02-26T17:34:00.000-08:00

When times are good, be happy;
but when times are bad, consider:
God has made the one as well as the other.
Ecclesiastes 7:14 NIV

Every Hair

2009-02-24T16:59:00.000-08:00

But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.
Luke 12:7

TSMS- The Kingdom Heirs - He Had to Rise

2009-02-20T19:54:00.000-08:00

I just saw The Kingdom Heirs in person for the first time this week. They were wonderful! I grew up listening to southern gospel and had forgotten how much I love it. Hope you enjoy this song!

For more Then Sings My Soul selections...check out Amy at Signs, Miracles and Wonders!

Heart of Stone

2009-02-20T10:04:00.000-08:00

I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.
Ezekiel 36:26NIV

Picture Perfect

2009-02-16T14:14:00.000-08:00

I love sending pictures with my Christmas cards. For some of my family, it's the only time they "see" my children! It never fails. Each year, beginning at Thanksgiving, we attempt to get the "perfect family picture" for the annual send out. Before the days of digital...it was a bit more frustrating.

One year stands out in my mind. My children were 1 and 2. Our film camera had a great timer (or so we thought at the time). With the piano bench perfectly placed in front of the perfectly decorated Christmas tree...we "cheesed" through a roll of film. "One hour" later we realized that although my husband and I looked exactly the same in all 24 takes, our two children took turns smiling. Another whole roll of imbalance later, I was fed up. It was time to take matters into my own hands.

Clip. Paste. Scan. Print. Just like that our family was "perfect". Thanks to a minor edit and old fashioned "cut and splice", both children were smiling perfectly while perfectly seated in front of our perfectly decorated tree.

We do that in our ordinary, everyday lives, don't we? Instead of just being real with one another, we edit ourselves and situations to appear perfect. AND we do it in our marriages! It's time to "Get Real".

Florence Baptist Church in Forest City, NC will be hosting a "Let's Get Real" Marriage Enrichment Conference on March 20-21 with Dale & Jena Forehand. The Forehand's have been featured speakers at LifeWay's Festival of Marriage and the 700 Club, among many others.

If you're within driving distance, consider coming. It's only $40 a couple...and that includes lunch on Saturday! For more information: www.daleandjena.com or www.florencechurch.net

2009-01-23T05:27:00.000-08:00

And Just Like That...

2009-01-22T06:41:00.000-08:00

Have you ever felt like your day was God-ordered and "in line" with His plan for the day? AND THEN...something happens? And just like that - you're out of His will.

This morning was great. Matt has been out of town for 4 days and today he's coming home! Anticipation of his return energized our house as we prepared for school. The kids dressed quickly, excited about the "we can wear jeans" day. Normally they wear khaki bottoms with their uniforms everyday. Sam dressed quickly and put on his usual uniform-approved black shoes. In an effort to be a "fun idea" mom...I suggested he wear his "cool sneakers" today. After all - he was already in jeans!

During our ride to school, we had a great talk about doing the "right thing" and being kind to one another. "Things happen everyday and we have a choice of how to react," I inspired. After dropping them off EARLY (kind of a rare occasion), I motored on home feeling like I had really been a great mom today.

Entering the house I began praying for the family and focusing on getting a "word" from God today. My lesson lead me to the state of a heart. This was going to be a GREAT day in God.

In the middle of my really spiritual moment - the phone rang. It was Sam's teacher letting me know that those "cool shoes" I suggested did not meet "uniform standards" and I needed to bring different ones. And just like that...

I love his teacher. But just like that-my spirit of mercy, love and kindness left me. I took the shoes but I was NOT happy about it. I didn't do anything externally-but my heart was huffing. The "reaction" lesson I just spoke about less than an hour earlier was MY lesson for the day.

Sometimes the "word" from God isn't in the scripture...it's in living. How I am living day-to-day shows whether the scripture is sinking in beneath the surface layer of my heart. My prayer today is to be so full of God's love that my reaction matches God's heart.

Worship

2009-01-11T11:06:00.000-08:00

Today I heard a great quote:
"Worship is the only activity we participate in that will be carried over to Heaven".

Think about that: Not committee meetings. Not dressing nice for church. Not job status. Not anything else...worship.

"Love the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind and strength." Luke 10:27

"The hour is coming, and now is, when true worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. God is Spirit, and those that worship Him must worship in spirit and truth." - John 4:23-24 NKJV

It's easy to say, "put God in the very highest place". But what does that mean and how do we do it?

Personally, when my focus is somewhere other than where it on the Lord, I try to redirect my focus through gratitude. I begin thanking Him for all I have.

If you feel you've "lost" so much (and in this economy - that is definatly possible), thank Him for what you have left.

You don't have to wax poetic in perfect rhyme and meter. Just tell Him just how much He means to you. Tell Him how much you love Him. Tell Him just how much He is WORTH to you. Is He more precious than silver? Is He more precious than Gold?

You don't have to walk around Wal-mart with your hands in the air singing hymns (unless the Spirit leads). In your everyday, mundane activites just start thanking Him.

*Unloading the dishes..."thank you for the food You provided".
*Folding the clothes..."thank you for each member of my family and for safety and health"
*Cleaning the toilet..."thank you for indoor plumbing."

For 2009, I want to be more consistant in my worship. Not just Sunday morning - daily. After all, when we worship Him, He comes near (Psalm 22:3). Then, it's Heaven on Earth!

TSMS-Red Wing

2009-01-10T11:01:00.000-08:00

Today, my TSMS post is a little different. It's about a song...but as stirring as any lyric. Suzanne Gaither-Jennings wrote and read a poem called "Red Wing" at one of the many Homecoming videos hosted by her parents, Bill and Gloria Gaither.

If you will hang with it...and have children...especially little boys...I think you won't regret the few minutes it takes to hear it.

With two children of my own, who are growing up before my very eyes, I was moved by the perspective Suzanne offered as a mother. One day my children may turn away from all I've tried to place in their hearts...but I pray that wherever they are - they remember songs we sang and stories they heard and feel close to God.

More Then Sings My Soul with Amy at www.signsmiraclesandwonders.blogspot.com

Just a Cool Picture

2009-01-08T05:21:00.000-08:00

This picture was taken at Bradley Falls in NC during a Geocaching adventure. Matt included his dad and a few of the cousins this time. I just thought it was a cool picture.

Just a Few Family Pictures

2009-01-04T12:33:00.000-08:00

For Such a Time...

2009-01-03T09:03:00.000-08:00

This weekend I returned to my hometown of Hartsville, SC for a special event - the 70th Anniversary of Miss Hartsville. While returning as a former Miss Hartsville/Miss South Carolina is an honor, this day represents much more.

Thirteen years ago, in a hospital room less than a mile from the location of tonight's program, my mother went Home to be with the Lord. I was Miss Hartsville that year. I must admit, when I was first asked to come back to emcee on THIS date, I nearly declined. However, God has used the time leading up to the event to point out parts of His perspective.

*Without the loss of my precious "Mama", there would have been no Legacy ministry message.
*Without the title of Miss Hartsville, there would have been no Miss South Carolina.
*Without the title of Miss South Carolina, there would have been no exposure and platform.
*Without the exposure, there would have been no invitations to share my message.
*Without the opportunities to share, there would have been no leading to write songs to incorporate that message through song.
*Without the leading, there would have been no music project.
*Without the music project, there would have been no "For Such a Time as This" confirmation in my life.

God truly does "align all the lines"...but only the passage of time gives us the vantage point to appreciate it.

Tonight I will share a short explanation of this event before I sing "For Such a Time as This". My prayer is that God would use the message of the song to offer hope and healing to those who may not understand what is happening in their lives right now...but still fully Trust the heart of God.

Slow Down December!

2008-12-17T19:53:00.000-08:00

Whew. Where does the time go? At last post, I was wrapping up Thanksgiving and entering into December. This has been a season of thankfulness...turkey or not.

As posted before, Matt's job was eliminated on September 29. Monday, December 15, was 77 days with no job. I am thrilled to report that our Provider hasn't missed a beat. We are so thankful for the unusual ways God has allowed us to be resourceful and make money! From ebay to a craft fair at school...we have had enough. Actually, after wrapping gifts for the kids today...we have had more than enough!

Early in the month I heard James Dobson speak of his ministry beginnings. He said, "Our money has always been like manna. We have enough for today but never enough to store up." Man, that's us. This season has really made us thankful for the daily provisions!

On December 8, Thomas Nelson met for the second time to pitch/discuss the proposed book "Car-Line Devotions for Moms" Amy and I are writing. Since the proposal was just sent out in October, this process has moved quicker than "normal". God is so faithful to give little rays of light when life seems cloudy. I just love Him. Hopefully we'll know more soon.

While we were visiting family in Ohio last weekend, Matt received a call from a company he would like to work with. Monday and Tuesday this week he interviewed with them. We should know next week whether that position is for him. I would love for him to have a job for Christmas!

Matt's frame of mind was among the conversations of the week. He has, with very little exception, been at peace with godly perspective throughout this process. Then, on Sunday morning while I was dressing, God brought back to mind the prayer we prayed when Matt came home from being "let go". We prayed from the Psalm that God would keep our minds in perfect peace as we kept our minds on Him. And He has!

Why are we so shocked when we ask for something specifically...and God gives it to us? Mercy. That's a lesson in itself!

I'll post more often...hopefully with terrific news about a job or book contract!

Create in Me a Clean Heart

2008-12-10T21:47:00.000-08:00

TSMS! Casting Crowns - I Heard The Bells On Christmas Day

2008-11-28T17:13:00.000-08:00

This song is so beautiful. I love it when a group updates a familiar standard. This entire project is GREAT! Definitely one for the holiday wish list.

More TSMS - visit Amy!!!

TSMS - I'm Amazed

2008-11-15T05:23:00.000-08:00

Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir...what else needs to be said? Jason Crabb does a terrific job leading this beautiful love song to God. I love to watch the men in the multi-racial choir wiping tears away as they sing. Beautiful.

I’m Amazed
No one knew how alone I was feeling
And the emptiness I tried so hard to hide
Through I laughed and said my life was fine without You.

I was covering up the secret tears I cried
Then one day someone told me of Your mercy
And the love You showed on a hill called Calvary
There you died and purchased my redemption
When you broke sin’s power and set my spirit free

I’m amazed that You love me
I’m amazed how You care
Through Your precious blood
I’ve fond pardon
And my sins are washed,
They’re all washed away
All my sins are washed away

It’s true there have been days when I’ve failed You
Lord, You know the many times I’ve gone astray
But I’ve learned that Your love is stronger than my weakness
And you ear is open every time I pray
No one else has ever cared for me like You, Lord
Other friends could never be as close to me
I’m not afraid to face the problems of tomorrow
Knowing You are everything I’ll ever need

I’m amazed that You love me
I’m amazed how You care
Through Your precious blood
I’ve fond pardon
And my sins are washed,
They’re all washed away
All my sins are washed away

For more TSMS- Check out Amy's blog!

2008-11-14T16:32:00.001-08:00

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Mid-November...Really?

2008-11-14T14:43:00.000-08:00

I can hardly believe it is mid-November!
Since I last posted pictures, our kids (and we) dressed up to beg for sweets around our neighborhood.

As you can see, Darby is Little Bo Peep...Sam is "Ben 10" (a character from Cartoon Network. No one else knew who he was but he was happy)...and I was Sarah Palin. The heels were regrettable by the end of the night! I did, however, enjoy saying things to our neighbors like, "You betcha" and "Maverick". Matt (our photographer) was "Joe the Plumber". He wore a tool belt with a NEW plunger and a name tag that said, "Hello, My Name is Joe the Plumber." Funny Stuff.

Things are slow-but-steady at our house. Matt is still in search of a job. Lately he is in search of other things, too. Geocaching has taken the place of his crossword puzzle obsession. If you are unfamiliar with this hobby...basically there are about 600,000 hidden treasures around the world. These "finds" range from just a 35mm film case with a log to sign, to a shoe-box filled with trade-able trinkets. With the help of a handheld GPS, searchers follow coordinates registered by the hider. Matt is hooked. There is a devotion in there somewhere about "searching for the hidden things". I'll work on it.

This was part of an attempt to find goodies. I couldn't help but feel like I was in an episode of CSI as we went deeper into the woods. NO cell service. Perfect.

Darby on the trail by the Broad River in Boiling Springs, NC. Did I mention the GPS wouldn't work because we were so far in the woods? Excellent.

I call this picture "The Rock n Rollers" or "Matt on the Rocks". Look how happy he is. Maybe I should hide a paint brush in our back yard for him...the search is the best part. Wonderful.

And, of course, there's nothing like ending up a good day of "caching" at the base of a water tower shaped like a peach (at least they say it's a peach). The clues lead us to this great location in Gaffney, SC. If you're not from around here, the trip down I-85 is not complete until you've seen "The Peach" near exit 90. The kids loved it...at least from the car it looked like they did. Peachy.

Last night, I had a great time opening the show for The Toney Brothers and The Dove Brothers at the Carolina Gospel Association Show. It was great fun to be a part of and to watch!

The Multi-Award Winning Dove Brothers posed for a quick picture during intermission.

Until next time...

Baby Ella Grace is Here!

2008-11-03T05:20:00.000-08:00

Matt's sister, Rachel, with her new precious baby.

Matt and Me with baby Ella Grace.

8 is Enough! All the Roller Cousins.

Yesterday was an exciting day in the Roller family. Ella Grace Mode was born at 6:33am. She is beautiful!

Rachel experienced 3-minute-apart contractions last week and thought she would surely deliver.With plenty of time to get childcare for her other two children she made her way to the hospital with bags packed...only to be sent home. Yesterday morning, she woke up to find the time had come. She arrived at the hospital at 6:15am and Baby Ella arrived at 6:33am. Whew!

I began thinking this morning about deliverance. I like a set plan that has been spelled out in a few easy steps. The ideal. However, sometimes God's time for us to be delivered from whatever we are in bondage to doesn't follow the 12-step-process. If He chooses, some have a very quick experience.

Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you...to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future."

God is gracious. God is good. God is love. God is in control.

Whatever needs to be removed from us, He can deliver...and always in perfect time.

More to come later…check back.

TSMS- I Call Him Lord

2008-10-25T09:46:00.000-07:00

Mark Lowry and Lordsong

My sweet Mama used to sing this Dottie Rambo song when I was a little girl. I was reminded of it as we began preparing for a Christmas program this week. Before I knew it, my hands were in the air and tears were filling my eyes. I am so glad I can call Him "Lord".
I hope you enjoy it!

For more TSMS check out AMY at Sign, Miracles and Wonders.

TSMS - Nothin' for My Journey

2008-10-17T21:10:00.001-07:00

The Happy Goodman Family - I Wouldn't Take Nothin' For My Journey Now!!!

I grew up singing this song in my little country church. God is really impressing on my spirit the importance of obeying in every step of the journey. I act like my little kids when I keep asking, "Are we there yet? Are we there yet? How much farther, Lord?" Instead I should be enjoying where I am with Him that day.

Enjoy. If this isn't your style of music...just enjoy how far we've come since the as-big-as-your-head bow tie days. But Vestel still had her white hanky!

For more great songs, check out Then Sings My Soul Saturday with Amy at Signs, Miracles and Wonders.

Who Holds the Keys

2008-10-17T06:24:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was interesting. The day began with a police officer at my door requesting that we "leash" our dog (apparently there's a law or something). Although shocked that anyone would make the effort to tame the beast that is "Millie", I agreed. Millie is an overweight beagle with short legs and torn ligaments. Even if she did "go after" someone...a quick skip would put said person far enough ahead that she would give up the chase. Funny.
Millie - Be Afraid. Be very afraid!

Next, I locked myself out of the house. Matt, who had been home for 18 days straight due to his recent job loss, was out of town. Of course he was. But here's the "glory lining": during my walk to retrieve keys from Matt's parents' home (1/2 mile away), God gave me this devotional. May it bless and challenge your heart as it did mine.

Who Holds the Keys

"Because he loves me," says the LORD, "I will rescue him;
I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.”
Psalm 91:14

I am a door locker. If my family is leaving for the day, I am the one who makes sure everything is locked up. At night, the last thing I do is make my rounds to ensure all locks are secured. This has been my routine for so long, it has become instinctual: I lock the door without even knowing it. Normally, this routine is not a problem…unless my key is on the other side of the door.

When I blindly go through my “routine” and forget my key, the same dead bolt lock that offers so much security is the very thing that keeps me from getting where I want and need to be. In the same way, physical securities are not bad for us: job, insurance, health, family. However, if we lose sight of the True Key to our security, the very same blessings can become the barriers standing between where we are and where God wants us to be: in His presence.

Evaluate today your priorities. Is something standing in between you and your ability to give all to Christ? Has a recent job loss, sickness or lost relationship made you feel out of control? Our need to control our circumstances removes God from the throne of our lives. Take comfort knowing God is in control. If we give Him the keys, we will never be locked out.

Bedtime Revelation

2008-10-16T05:22:00.000-07:00

I know I haven't been terribly faithful to this blog lately. Anything I feel inspired by...I'm throwing in the book I'm working on!

Had to share this, though...

Last night during bedtime prayers, I was bragging on Sam about how proud I was that he was behaving in school. See, we've had an interesting school career so far. Last year, in FIRST GRADE, he was suspended for 1 day for repeatedly talking in class. A BIT extreme in my opinion but...that's another post.

Anyway, the conversation was kind of like this:
"Sam, I am so proud of you for doing so great at school. I already knew you were smart...but I love that you are now being respectful and behaving in class."

"Well, a person can be smart and not be good. It's not about the brain - it's about the heart."

"You're right, Sam."

Sincerely, he very seriously added, "Sometimes when I do good things my heart is clean. When I my heart is dirty, I don't do good things and my heart needs to be washed in the washing machine. Then I can do good things again."

Stunned by the profoundness of this 7-year-old's revelation, we said good-night.

Sam's right. When we act with a clean heart, God enables us to "do good". God is the washing machine. My prayer today is to have a clean heart so I can act in a way that is pleasing to God - not just from my head - but from my heart.

Good stuff.

TSMS - Blessed Be The Name of the LORD

2008-10-10T15:17:00.000-07:00

This week has been such a mix of ups and downs! It really has been a "Roller" coaster. Last Monday, Matt was a victim of our economy...that's right...downsized. Yuck.

Just a few days later, I received thrilling, long-awaited news...I officially have a literary agent! The proposal for a new book went out to Christian publishers and already received positive response! Yeah.

Our health insurance ended 2 weeks ago. Yuck.

The Bible study I'm leading, "Discerning the Voice of God," began with great response. Yeah.

Matt continues to follow-up on leads: some with positive response.

Please join me in praying that God's Will be VERY EVIDENT in our lives during these times. We are united in our passion to please Him. We will CHOOSE to say, "Blessed be the name of the LORD!"

Check out more TSMS with Amy!

TSMS - I Will Not Be Moved

2008-10-04T05:19:00.000-07:00

Every once in a while I'll hear a song that I just want to pump up as loud as my speakers can stand...this Natalie Grant song is it right now.

I LOVE the message, rhythm and it's easy to dance to...I give it a 10.

Better Together

2008-10-04T05:16:00.000-07:00

I just love Jack Johnson. My awareness of him began when we saw the movie, Curious George.

This week at our school, students were asked to dress as a book character for Book Fair activities. Sam dressed as "The Man in the Yellow Hat" - and won the prize for 2nd grade!

Darby was ADORABLE as Little Bo Peep - fully equipped with staff and sheep. It was a such fun day!

I had a great time making their outfits and have really been bitten by the sewing bug again.

Anita Renfro - Think Before I Eat

2008-09-29T07:10:00.000-07:00

Women of Faith - Here We Come!

2008-09-24T06:06:00.000-07:00

Oh I am so excited! Atlanta's Phillip's Arena is hosting Women of Faith - Infinite Grace September 26-27. Thanks to my sweet friend Carol... Amy, Carol H. and I will be attending. I have had awesome experiences at WOF.

About 5 years ago, Amy Wyatt and I went to our first Women of Faith in Charlotte, NC. We ordered tickets late so our seats were...well, really bad. We were up so high that people were making and taking cell phone calls! Not great. The tickets for the event have Friday's tear-off ticket on one side and Saturday's on the other.

Saturday morning came and, skipping lots of details...I had lost my ticket. Convinced I had dropped it somewhere within the arena the night before - I just gave up on the possibility of getting in. "Take good notes," I told Amy. Just then and lady walked by and said, "Do you need a ticket?" WHOO! And just like that, God provided a ticket...not just any ticket...a place in a better section/closer to the stage. In much appreciation, I said, "You rescued me!" To which the lady said, "I work for a rescue mission!" (Of course you do, I thought.)

As lunch was wrapping up on Saturday, another "new" friend said, "Hey where are you sitting? There are plenty of seats around us. Why don't y'all come sit with us?" Well, as we followed them down, down, down steps...we ended up on the second row behind the speakers. No kidding. Amy and I looked at each other and bawled like babies!

You see, we had both prayed for confirmation from God of a calling in our hearts. A calling into ministry. Our separate (unknown to the other) prayer was to be moved closer so we wouldn't miss a thing due to distraction. There we were ... on the second row where the only people closer were the ladies who escort the speakers.

In an auditorium of 16,000+, God heard the heart's cry of two and confirmed a call into ministry. Since then, we have both been moving toward Him.

NEEDLESSTOSAY, I am thrilled to have the opportunity to soak it all in and hear from God this weekend. I'm going to sing loud and listen louder! I am expectant! God is always BIG but we don't always notice. I'm sitting up straight this weekend with leaning ears.

Join me in praying for each of the 19,000 attending in Atlanta.

Isaiah 61

2008-09-22T07:53:00.000-07:00

The Year of the LORD's Favor

1 The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, 2 to proclaim the year of the LORD's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, 3 and provide for those who grieve in Zion—to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise nstead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor.

4 They will rebuild the ancient ruins and restore the places long devastated; they will renew the ruined cities that have been devastated for generations.
5 Aliens will shepherd your flocks; foreigners will work your fields and vineyards.
6 And you will be called priests of the LORD, you will be named ministers of our God. You will feed on the wealth of nations, and in their riches you will boast.
7 Instead of their shame my people will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace they will rejoice in their inheritance; and so they will inherit a double portion in their land, and everlasting joy will be theirs.
8 "For I, the LORD, love justice; I hate robbery and iniquity. In my faithfulness I will reward them and make an everlasting covenant with them.
9 Their descendants will be known among the nations and their offspring among the peoples. All who see them will acknowledge that they are a people the LORD has blessed."
10 I delight greatly in the LORD; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.
11 For as the soil makes the sprout come up and a garden causes seeds to grow, so the Sovereign LORD will make righteousness and praise spring up before all nations.

TSMS - Something About That Name

2008-09-20T09:54:00.000-07:00

I woke up this morning with this song on my heart! After sharing at night's Relay for Life Luminary Ceremony, I am awed by the tremendous opportunity we all have to share the name of Jesus. Just this week I was getting my nails done (my recent uncharacteristic indulgence). The Vietnam native holding my hand was giving his opinion on the day's news and politics when he said a very interesting thing. "When I die, I want to be sitting right here holding someone's hand. When I go to the Kingdom of God, I'll look through the gate and say, "Hey, I did her nails, and her nails...let me in! I know them!"

Then I said with a nervous stomach, "you know there's only one you need to know to enter into the Kingdom of God."
"Who?"
"Jesus. All the others are just extras. He is the only Way."

That room-silencing statement was followed by his mis-information about Peter holding the key to the gate...and some other really mixed up statements.

My heart ached and leaped - all at the same time. You see, his little girl was sitting just feet away from us with a Christian school logo on her shirt. I'm assuming they chose that school because it was private...not Christian. God is so awesome! Even in a fume-filled nail salon, He places opportunities to witness.

I'll pray for that family and try again...in two weeks!

For more Then Sings My Soul - check out Amy's site!

Sam's Project!

2008-09-19T10:10:00.000-07:00

Okay! Today was the big day. Sam's first big project as a 2nd grader: Geographic Landform - A Valley. In order to have a valley...you have to have mountains or hills. After the trusty "google" located a great idea...we totally copied it! Using the foam insulation in a can, we made two mountain-looking mounds in a box. This "great stuff" puffs up and makes it's own bumps and peaks. After it dried for two days, Sam started painting it.

Then we got creative! I cut a road in the side of one of the mountains and painted it. Then we molded tiny cars with modeling clay.

Sam had the great idea to make a little man climbing the mountain. We painted a waterfall on one of the lumpy parts.

Here's the finished project! For a scrap box, foam in a can and some craft paint...I think it's pretty cool!!!

Good job Sam!

Big Springs Cat goes Back to School!

2008-09-15T09:03:00.000-07:00

I had the opportunity to speak and sing at Big Springs Baptist Church in Hollis, NC on Thursday. Sweet people...and great food! I may have to join this spunky seniors group next month!

A few weeks late on the update but...here we are. Sam and Darby started back to school on August 21! I can't believe I have 1st and 2nd graders. Every day they look forward to going to school. That alone is a blessing! We are thankful Thomas Jefferson Classical Grammar opened in Forest City. Not only is the education top notch, the "community atmosphere" is wonderful!

We are now working on a geographic landform project for Sam's first project as a 2nd grader. If it turns out okay...I'll post pictures. If not - you'll know.

We've also added a new member to our family. In classic creative style...her name is "Kitty". A neighborhood wanderer no more...she's now a Roller.

This Friday is Relay for Life here. I have the honor of performing during the luminary service.
Thanks for checkin' in. More to come.

Wisdom

2008-09-04T05:31:00.000-07:00

I recently heard the quote:

"Discernment is more than knowing right from wrong.

True discernment is knowing right from almost right. "

Today I began my morning reading in I Kings. Solomon, after being hand-appointed by King David before his death, is in charge. Most know Solomon as the writer of most of the Proverbs and the spicy Song of Solomon. "Wisdom" seems to be interchangable with his name. Today the "holy high-lighter" beamed on one over-looked point.

When dreaming of a conversation with the Lord, God asked him what he most wanted. Faced with many choices including wealth, love, fame and power, Solomon said he wanted wisdom and discernment. Pleased by this, God granted his request but also favored him by also providing the other riches.

I know God is not a "genie in a bottle". But, if I was given one "wish"... would I choose wisdom? Would you? Today, consider all God has to offer and choose wisely when making requests.

Weekend Wrap-up: Interview, Fairview and Mountain view

2008-09-02T06:33:00.000-07:00

The weekend was very eventful! I had a great time sharing my faith on "Your Carolina with Jack and Kimberly" WSPA-TV Channel 7 in Greenville, SC. Sweet friends Donna and Debra met me downtown to show support. That experience was followed up by a quick trip to Starbucks...who can complain about that?

As I made my way back to Forest City, NC, three precious packages accompanied me: Sarah, Hannah and Caroline. Tim and Alison headed to the Clemson-Alabama game and we spent time with their girls. We miss living one street away from them in Mauldin. It was great to get all the cousins together again!

On Sunday, I had the honor of singing and speaking at Fairview Baptist Church in Caser, NC. Never heard of Caser? Me, neither. But I'll say, I will never forget this precious church. As we rounded the country road, the white, should-be-on-a-postcard church sat high on the freshly mowed hill. Three wooded crosses greeted us on the sloped drive. The simple decor of the building was made beautiful by the unbelievable mountain views from the full-length glass windows. What wonderful sights to bring you into a time of worship! My concert was followed by a fellowship and refreshment time in their fellowship hall. Good food. Good company. Great time.

I thank God for the opportunity to share what He's done in my life. I am humbled by the thought that someone could see perfect Him through one as flawed as me...

Lysa Terkeurst at ERBC

2008-08-26T07:17:00.000-07:00

Me, Carol, Lysa, Amy and Kimberly

Lysa Terkeurst. The name is enough if you've heard the testimony. Last night she blessed 300+ ladies at Edwards Road Baptist Church (my home-church) in Greenville, SC with her story of God's very perfect plan in our very imperfect lives. Many were moved to tears. She does such a wonderful job conveying passion and emotion through her story.

I'm encouraged today to say "yes" to God!!!

It was a blast to see all of the "home folk" at ERBC. Ladies First Choice is such a wonderful ministry. I miss being a part of it. With a couple hours on my hands before its start at 6:30, I went by to help out - just like old times. It was my pleasure to serve as we placed brownies and salads on the beautifully prepared tables.

Bloggie buddies united once again. I actually met "Runner Mom" (for the second time). Susan had been on my blog before and introduced herself at the event. Get this...she actually looked at my house in Mauldin when it was for sale 2 years ago! Crazy stuff! I'm so glad we connected again...this time in the Lord's house.

Susan, Lysa and Me.

The kids are in school and I have more to post. Check back soon.

Your Carolina

2008-08-25T05:37:00.000-07:00

I will be on "Your Carolina with Jack and Kimberly" on

Friday, August 29th - Live @ 10a.m.

WSPA-TV Channel 7 is a CBS affiliate out of Upstate South Carolina with an 800,000 home viewing audience. I am thrilled to have an opportunity to sing and share a bit about what God is actively doing in my life and ministry. Tune in if you're in the area!

Darby Looks at 6!

2008-08-12T15:53:00.000-07:00

Halloween 2007 - Beautiful Bride.

Halloween 2005. Rhinestone Cowgirl and Larryboy!

Just some of my favorite pictures of Darby. Tomorrow is her birthday! She is such a sweetie and I can't believe we've had her for 6 years.

Off a Roll

2008-08-07T05:56:00.000-07:00

Well, "hello again" everyone.

I was really on a "blogroll" last month. Now, August has left my blog a bit bare. I would love to say it's because I am SOOO busy. Actually, it's more because we are just doing the day-by-day summer thing: rearranging bedrooms, cleaning out too-small clothes to make room for new school duds...Nothing very 'blogworthy'...

My baby girl, Darby, will be 6 in one week. More to come about that!
School starts on August 21. Much more to come about that!

Then Sings My Soul Saturday - Trust His Heart

2008-07-26T06:19:00.000-07:00

Hello, Saturday "Then Singer's". Today I've posted one of my all-time favorites by Babbie Mason. I had the opportunity to attend The Inner Circle songwriter's conference last year. It was wonderful.

All around us people are struggling - relationships, health, death, finances, job loss...

This song is such a reminder to not look at today's circumstances.

God's plan is bigger than circumstances.

All things work for our good

Though sometimes we can't see how they could

Struggles that break our hearts in two

sometimes blinds us to the truth

Our Father knows what's best for us

His ways are not our own

So when your pathway grows dim,

and you just can't see Him

Remember you're never alone

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God is too wise to be mistaken

God is too good to be unkind

So when you don't understand...

When you don't see His plan

When you can't trace His hand

Trust His heart

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He sees the master plan and

He holds our future in His hands

So don't live as those who have no hope

all our hope is found in Him

We see the present clearly but

He sees the first and the last

And like a tapestry He's weaving you and me

to someday be just like Him

************

He alone is faithful and true

He alone knows what is best for you

Rainy Days and Mondays

2008-07-22T05:58:00.000-07:00

"Rainy Days and Mondays always get me down." You could probably sing along with this Carpenter's hit and nod in agreement. Noone likes rainy days! Or Mondays! But I will say...yesterday we were hoping that those dark grey clouds looming above our drought-parched houses would drop buckets of relief. Thunder roared. Lightning pierced. No rain fell.

A quick peek at the nightly weather report informed us that there were storms all around us. It seemed that everyone was getting that lovely wet stuff but us! Put off and a little dissappointed that our grass would die another day, we went to bed.

"I guess the grass will always be greener on the other side...if they're the ones getting the rain."

The morning news report shared a new story. Those same storms we were hoping for had caused tremendous damage in surrounding areas. Fallen trees and power outages were tops of the headlines today. Sometimes the rain brings more.

"Whew. I'm glad that storm missed us!"

Isn't it funny how our perception changes when time has passed? We were praying for the event, grumbling at it's loss and rejoicing that it wasn't us...all within 12 hours! When will we figure out that God has this thing figured out???

God's hand protected us from the high winds and falling trees...but we still wanted rain. I can look at my spiritual life and see the same pattern. It seems that everyone around me is getting "rain" except me and I am desperate for a taste of it. I want to be close to Him. To know Him like no other. I want to "praise Him in the storm" - when and if He chooses to work there.

Adaville Baptist Church

2008-07-20T19:44:00.000-07:00

Today was a great day at Adaville Baptist in Spindale, NC. These precious folks were so welcoming and supportive. Pastor Cal Sayles delivered a message refocusing our minds on life's real goal: Heaven. He reminded us that our treasures should not be invested in things of this life - instead on things that have eternal value.

I had the opportunity to share 3 songs and brief testimony. God is gracious and faithful. I am thankful.

TSMS - Mighty to Save - Hillsong

2008-07-18T18:53:00.001-07:00

The video is precious!

Everyone needs compassion

A love that's never failing

Let mercy fall on me

Everyone needs forgiveness

A kindness of a Savior

The hope of nations

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Savior

He can move the mountains

My God is Mighty to save

He is Mighty to save

Forever

Author of salvation

He rose and conquered the grave

Jesus conquered the grave

So take me as You find me

All my fears and failures

Fill my life again

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I give my life to follow

Everything I believe in

Now I surrender

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Shine your light and let the whole world see

We're singing for the glory of the risen King...Jesus

Visit AMY at SIGNS, MIRACLES AND WONDERS for more Then Sings My Soul Saturday.

Twenty Cans of Success

2008-07-17T19:59:00.000-07:00

My sweet friend Carol shared this today.

Be encouraged as I was by this!

Open up a Can.

Twenty Cans of Success

by Neil Anderson

Why should I say I can't when the Bible says I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength (Philippians 4:13)?

Why should I lack when I know that God shall supply all my needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19)?

Why should I fear when the Bible says God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7)?

Why should I lack faith to fulfill my calling, knowing that God has allotted to me a measure of faith (Romans 12:3)?

Why should I be weak when the Bible says that the Lord is the strength of my life and that I will display strength and take action because I know God (Psalm 27:1; Daniel 11:32)?

Why should I allow Satan supremacy over my life when He that is in me is greater than he that is in the world (1 John 4:4)?

Why should I accept defeat when the Bible says that God always leads me in triumph (2 Corinthians 2:14)?

Why should I lack wisdom when Christ became wisdom to me from God and God gives wisdom to me generously when I ask Him for it (1 Corinthians 1:30; James 1:5)?

Why should I be depressed when I can recall to mind God's lovingkindness, compassion and faithfulness, and have hope (Lamentations 3:21-23)?

Why should I worry and fret when I can cast all my anxiety on Christ who cares for me (1 Peter 5:7)?

Why should I ever be in bondage knowing that there is liberty where the Spirit of the Lord is (2 Corinthians 3:17)?

Why should I feel condemned when the Bible says I am not condemned because I am in Christ (Romans 8:1)?

Why should I feel alone when Jesus said He is with me always and He will never leave me nor forsake me (Matthew 28:20; Hebrews 13:5)?

Why should I feel accursed or that I am the victim of bad luck when the Bible says that Christ redeemed me from the curse of the law that I might receive His Spirit (Galatians 3:13, 14)?

Why should I be discontented when I, like Paul, can learn to be content in all my circumstances (Philippians 4:11)?

Why should I feel worthless when Christ became sin on my behalf that I might become the righteousness of God in Him (2 Corinthians 5:21)?

Why should I have a persecution complex knowing that nobody can be against me when God is for me (Romans 8:31)?

Why should I be confused when God is the author of peace and He gives me knowledge through his indwelling Spirit (1 Corinthians 14:33; 2:12)?

Why should I feel like a failure when I am a conqueror in all things through Christ (Romans 8:37)?

Why should I let the pressures of life bother me when I can take courage knowing that Jesus has overcome the world and its tribulations (John 16:33)?

Ministering to the Lord

2008-07-16T16:06:00.000-07:00

OK. I'll admit it. This week, I have been bit pouty. With chores, children and household chaos, I lost sight of my Lord for a few days. He wasn't behind the laundry...He was in it the whole time. My connection to Him isn't "when it's all done"...it's in the doing.

Tonight I picked up a little book called "Prayers & Promises for Women" and read this entry:

And the twelve were with him, and certain women, which had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities, Mary called Magdalene, out of whom went seven devils, and Joanna...and Susanna, and many others, which ministered unto him of their substance. Luke 8:1-3

The role of women in Your ministry is not clear, but we can catch glimpses of them now and then. As with many men You healed, women also left their homes to follow You, to minister to Your needs. They saw You were fed and clothed, with a place to rest at night, taking on those burdens to free You and the disciples to do Your work. Many women carry on this ministry today, quietly supporting Your work, seeing to the details of church life. Only You know who they are. Bless them and keep them; give them Your reward for faithful service."

Today, I thank God for the opportunity to serve my family: to keep their clothes smelling like Downy, to maintain the household and feed their sweet little faces. That is my ministry...not just to my family...to the Lord.

Today Will Be Better

2008-07-15T06:33:00.000-07:00

Today is going to be a great day. My first thoughts this morning as I woke up. It has to be better than yesterday.

Yesterday was...humph. It started out good - and ambitious for a Monday! "Everyone strip your beds! We're washing sheets!" The kids loved not having to make their beds. Then I got the brilliant idea to clean out closets. What was I thinking???? Darby's was a mix of too-small shoes, Barbies and random toy pieces. So, we removed everything and started with a blank canvas, I mean closet. The sight of an empty closet was wonderful. I was great until I turned around to see the mountain-high mound of assorted treasures piled up on her sheetless bed. How are we going to get all this stuff back in the closet?

I really wanted to lie down somewhere at this point...but none of the beds had sheets!

Still, I proceeded - but not without a few interruptions. Remember my post from a few days ago? I also bought birdhouses. Darby painted her birdhouse WITH HER HANDS and not the messless squeeze paint brush kit. Then, Sam added water to the PlayDoh. If you've ever done that (and why would you) it just makes a slimy, gross mess. It seemed like as soon as I would get one mess cleaned up...there was another.

I would like to say that I handled all of it with grace and love. Let's just say I was reading "Shepherding the Heart of a Child" again last night. I needed a reminder of how God would handle these situations. Man, I blew it.

Aren't you glad God loves us enough to give us another chance when we just plain BLOW IT?

God must look at me sometimes and think, "Didn't I just get you cleaned up?" And there I go again - doing things my own way or adding to it. Still He whispers, "Forget yesterday. Today will be better."

Then Sings My Soul Saturday

2008-07-12T08:45:00.000-07:00

One of my MOST favorite songs is "Sing to the King" by Billy Foote. There's an energy with this song that just gets my hands up and the rest of me swaying. It comes from an old hymn called "Sing We the King" from 1910 (at least the first verse). The awesome chorus was added and it has been recorded by Passion, Hillsong and, most recently, Sandy Patti.

The chorus lyrics are:

Come let us sing a song - A song declaring we belong to Jesus -

He's all we need.

Lift up a song of praise - Sing now with voices raised to Jesus -

Sing to the King!

Anybody Ready for School to Start?

2008-07-11T08:09:00.000-07:00

OK, Moms. Summer is in full swing and the travel has nearly stopped. That translates into a LOT of time at home. I love that! There is NO PLACE I would rather be than in my house! However, two short people in said house are making me wish they were back in school. I don't like feeling that way. So, sometimes I feel the need to exit my house to go to my

2nd favorite place...Wal-Mart.

Last night the exit was necessary. Matt agreed to handle all of the bed-time duties while I just got out for a while. A large bookstore would have been my ideal refuge; however, we live in Forest City. So...Wal-Mart would have to do.

While there, I searched for some busy...I mean bonding stuff for us to do. I came up with a few paint kits: a star frame for Sam and a butterfly mirror for Darby. My plan was to begin today as normal and when the "he looked at me" "she breathed near me" talk began...I would break out the kits.

Good idea, right?

Ahhh the best laid plans...

When I returned from the store, they were both still awake (thank you sweet tea with dinner) and saw the Thursday activity plan. Needlesstosay, this morning I was awakened with desperate voices in need of painting.

"Guys," I reasoned, "we aren't painting yet. I bought those for when you start fighting today." (Morning mind.)

"OK. If we start fighting now...can we paint?" (That Darby - always thinking)

So, we painted.

Darby - Always very careful.

Sam, always very colorful.

In the end...Sam's favorite part was taking the extra stickers and making a "Sam-bot" out of himself.

Drumroll Please.........

Here's Darby's Frame/Mirror!

And Sam's Star Frame.

Time well spent!

The Gratitude Dance

2008-07-10T07:14:00.000-07:00

Have you danced today?

Robots, Magic Hats and Me...Oh My!

2008-07-09T18:41:00.000-07:00

This summer has been full of events, travel and interesting e-mails. After our week-long vacation, Little Miss South Carolina in Hartsville, Deeper Still in Atlanta and Miss South Carolina in Spartanburg...I'm ready to stay at home in Forest City for a while!

Much-needed rain came down yesterday and today. As wonderful as that was, Sam and Darby don't do well without a sunshine-run-around-outside break. Neither does Mommy. So, to break up the day, yesterday we headed out to see Wall-E.

After reading reviews ranging from "I slept through this movie" to "This was the best movie ever"...I wasn't sure what to make of it. I will say this - any movie that can captivate the attention of 4 kids under 7 is OK with me! Minimal dialogue. Cute robot. G-rating. I won't be waiting to rent it again but...it was good.

Today, "Nana" took the kids to see a magic show at the local library. Needlesstosay, Sam has been pulling things out of his hat all night.

During my quiet time, I wrote several devotions for the book Amy and I are trying to complete. By God's grace and provision, in two years, moms all over the country will be encouraged by words God gives now. Amazing. More about this new devotional when more is known.

I am excited about a few new invitations and confirmations I've received over the last few days: August 9 - Rock Hill, SC, September 11 - Big Springs Baptist in Hollis, NC and March 27-29 - Taylors First Baptist Church's Women's Conference (held at The Cove).

Please continue to pray for us! God is working. I am thankful.

Miss South Carolina 2008

2008-07-04T07:22:00.001-07:00

Darby and Crystal Garrett, Miss SC 2007

ON OUR WAY!

Last night Darby and I headed down to Spartanburg, SC for the last night of preliminary competition at Miss South Carolina. It was a sweet girls night out that ended with a trip through the Krispy Kreme drive-thru window.

The finals are Saturday, July 5th. Guess who's doing the pre-show!!!! Me! I have an opportunity to sing 15-20 minutes before the state-wide event.

Keep us in your prayers!

The Shackles are Off!

2008-07-01T08:00:00.000-07:00

Deeper Still in Atlanta this past weekend was wonderful. Priscilla brought us out of the wilderness. Kay took us through three books of the Old Testament with real-life application. Beth lead a 19,000-member interactive scripture memory session while bringing out Truth. The Word was alive in Atlanta!

Travis Cottrell. Wow. God must have been pleased with the worship. He was so gracious to "hang out" during the breaks for pictures and chat.

Smile!

You have to watch this short video!

Who says Bible teachers can't be fun? Certainly not these three. During "Shackles", the Deeper Still Trio entertained the sold-out arena as if they were alone in a hotel room just cuttin' up. I wonder if David ever did that lasso move when He danced before the Lord?

God is dealing with me to stay in His Word and know more about Him. The daily discipline of being with Him can not be replaced by anything else. I want to KNOW the TRUTH so I can SPEAK the TRUTH.

Deeper Still

2008-06-27T05:12:00.000-07:00

Headin' down to Atlanta this weekend for "Deeper Still" with Beth Moore, Priscilla Shirer and Kay Arthur. Whew. It ought to be great!!! Add a little Travis Cottrell and Mandisa...Mercy!

The Phillips Arena event is SOLD OUT. (Other than the drive to Atlanta) I am sooo excited about hearing what God has placed on these ladies hearts! Please be in prayer for them as they minister to all those women!

I'm taking notes and I'll let you know.

He Gives the Vision

2008-06-26T07:19:00.000-07:00

Several months ago I submitted an entry for a scholarship to the Blue Ridge Christian Writer's Conference at Ridgecrest Conference Center. I marked it on my calendar and prayed about it, not knowing how I would get there. The Cecil B. Murphey scholarship application was simple: in 50 words or less, tell why you would like to go to BWCWC. Here's what I wrote:

"Attending the Blue Ridge conference will equip me in ministering to others through the written word. Having written many devotions and a Christian children’s book about dealing with the death of a loved one, I am excited about learning the proper channels for publication. Thank you for the opportunity to be considered for this scholarship."

The conference was in late May. One month later, I have talked to a literary agent who feels this devotional is marketable. I am preparing a proposal to be considered by some of the top publishing houses in Christian writing. This, my friends, blows my mind.

God is so faithful. With the series of amazing encounters I have had over the past year, only God can be praised. No strategy on my part could have orchestrated such plans. My brain doesn't do strategy. God has the Master plan with every detail mapped out.

Now, even as I look back at the words I wrote to be considered for the scholarship...I see how God is faithful to give a vision and fulfill it. If this devotional book is picked up, I will be "ministering to others through the written word". Not just others, moms like me who need encouragement daily.

For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

Welcome to the World!

2008-06-25T19:48:00.000-07:00

Papa Charlie (my Dad) with Baby Adam and Big Sister Maggie

I have a new nephew!!!

Introducing

Adam River Powers
June 24, 2008

8lbs. 10oz.

Little Adam is finally here. Congratulations to John (my brother), Gina and big sister Maggie.

Summer Fun!

2008-06-24T08:02:00.001-07:00

Sam! Lovin' that missing tooth!

Darby on the swing.

Best Buddies...today.

Oh, to be young again!

This is our first summer that really means "summer". Since they both are out of school now, we are enjoying the relaxed mornings and lazy afternoons. August will be here too soon and our 1st and 2nd graders will be off to school again.

But for now, we'll just play.

The Good, the Bad and the Godly.

2008-06-23T09:56:00.000-07:00

Here we are in the last week of June. How did that happen so quickly? It's almost Christmas!

This past weekend I was in Hartsville, SC to emcee the Little Miss South Carolina pageant. The committee does such a great job organizing this program. Over $38,000 is given away in scholarship at the state competition. That's pretty impressive.

To top it all off for me, the organizers allowed me to do the "pre-show". During that time I shared a brief testimony and sang two of my songs, Come Join in the Choir and For Such a Time as This.

I was able to catch up with my sweet high school friend Meredith. To my great surprise, many of my fellow classmates now have blogs dedicated to their children. Sweet. Now I can check in on them more than once a year! Even though I have two little ones, it is still hard to believe my friends are moms and dads!

Today I checked e-mail to find a less-than-pleasant message from a pageant attendee. Apparently her contestant did not win...and she was not happy. "Shocked", actually. Because I had given my testimony and made my faith obvious, she decided to challenge my authenticity as a Christian. Obviously confused about scoring in some categories, basically she said if I call myself a Christian I shouldn't associate myself with a system that is not on the "up and up". Wow.

You know, even though she was completely misinformed and inappropriate in how she approached me, she did make me think. Christians have a responsibility - It's called a witness. If we claim to be part of God's family, we should act like it in word and deed. Where we go, what we say and who we hang out with says a lot about us!

Sometimes it's hard to take the "high road". My default reaction when I read her yucky message to me was to bow up like a cat and claw her back with my "oh no she didn't" attitude. But, that would not be representing my Heavenly Father very well, would it? So, in turn, I attempted to diffuse her frustration with kindness. Will she receive it? That's not my responsibility. My job is to do my part: respond in a Christ-like attitude above reproach.

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1

What a Difference a Week Makes!

2008-06-15T20:26:00.000-07:00

Well, we had a big time at the beach! We all survived and returned to our homes a little more toasted. I celebrated my 32nd birthday while away. Matt took me out to dinner and surprised me with tickets to Le Grande Cirque on our date-night. It was great to be able to just spend time with my sweet husband.

I love vacation. But I LOVE coming home.

After a week at the beach, our trip ended with a stop through my hometown of Hartsville, SC. For the past 6 years, I have emceed the Little Miss South Carolina pageants for two weekends in June. It was, as always, super-organized and well-done. I'll be back in Hartsville for the televised state finals on June 21!

When we got home LATE Saturday night, I couldn't believe my eyes. As the headlights cut through the dark driveway, our house, left empty for only a 9 days, was in desperate need of attention. The grass was overtaking the walkway, the ferns were brown, trash was all over the yard from our precious animals and the house was dark. Not very inviting. What a difference a week makes!

What must our spiritual house look like when we take our "vacation" from upkeep? A "break" from reading our Bible, or just spending time with God can lead to weeds where there should be fruit. Life's once-cleared pathway of what God would have for us does not seem so clear because other grassy things are making the lines of right and wrong blurred. Without the watering of the Word, our once healthy, growing spirit-life becomes dry, brittle and brown...just like those ferns!

Bringing my house back up to standard will take some work: Weed-eating, weed-pulling and grass-cutting is in my Monday-future. And that's okay...I love personal satisfaction of the yard work. After a good week of maintenance, we should be ready to do it all again next week.

How's your week been? Are your edges cleared or is there a bit of overgrowth? Clear it out today with a step into God's Garden of Grace. He will meet you there and you'll be growing toward the Son with His Care. Next Monday you will say, "Wow! What a difference a week makes!"

Ahh! Sweet Vacation

2008-06-06T00:00:00.000-07:00

Today my family is heading down to North Myrtle Beach, SC for summer vacation! Matt's entire family continues the tradition of making our presence known the first week in June each year. Without-a-doubt, this is certainly an anticipated event by all 15 of us!

Somehow this year is different for me, though. I look forward to the beach's calming waves and warming atmosphere. My spirit needs a rest and inspiration. Don't get me wrong, the laundry and dishes are enough to inspire anyone! In fact, God has used the dishwasher to help me write a song (another day/another post). But now, I am looking for God to show up by the shore.

My kids are getting bigger and I am beginning to see the evidence of time passing too quickly. In just a few short years the small puddles of ocean water in low places of shore will no longer capture their attention.

So, until the day comes when little plastic pails aren't enough, I am cherishing these moments. This week, I will try to post but...if I don't, I'm probably sitting on the beach.

Jobs V. Careers

2008-06-05T05:59:00.001-07:00

Today I got one of those e-mails that spam missed. It was called "Jobs verses Careers". Take a peek at this clip - then I'll explain why it made the post.

"In this day and age, jobs tend to be confused with careers. An easy way to appreciate the difference is to understand that a job is what pays the bills and a career is what you’re passionate about.For many people they are not one and the same. So what can you do if you’re in a job but you want to be in a career?"

I just read Carol's post about being Jesus Next Door. Sometimes Christians can slip into the "job" mentality about serving Christ. No, it doesn't pay the bills...but it's also not what gets you up in the morning. Being a Christian is more than just "getting us through til the next crisis"... flippin' burgers to pay off our Visa. It should be a life-long commitment.

When we serve God as a "career" - we know we, and He, are in it for the long haul. With that level of commitment secured, we are ready to weather any storm knowing God is at the head of the ship. He's the boss who will never fire us. Never leave us. Provide for us. Love us.

So, what about you? Is your walk with God a "get me by" job...or a life-long career until we retire in our heavenly home?

Little Country Church

2008-06-04T19:03:00.000-07:00

Tonight I had the opportunity to return to Smith Grove Baptist Church in Forest City, NC. After visiting with them a couple months ago, I was asked back to share songs from my new cd! What a treat!

Smith Grove is a self-described "little country church". With the large mega-churches and large congregations I've gotten used to attending, it is so refreshing to see a small group of people so invested in each other! Just like the church I grew up in, most of the people in the church are related. Members rarely miss a service. There's no program or "order of service" bulletin. Folks just sing out and sing loud. If you have a song, you just let the minister know the night of service. Their loving spirit is visible in their words and actions. They still have a "fellowship hall" not a "family life center". Sunday School is still Sunday School.

Smith Grove is without a pastor right now. Please join with me in prayer that God's Perfect Plan will be revealed to the search committee. Also, pray that the hearts of the church will be prepared to receive their new pastor.

Miss Fancy

2008-05-30T13:55:00.000-07:00

Today, my baby girl finished Kindergarten. Among her awards for reading, handwriting and math, one award was a stand out. Darby received the "Fancy Nancy Award". I'm sure there had never been another given...at least at our school.
Last month our school had "Book Character Day" as part of the Book Fair activities. Darby dressed as "Fancy Nancy" (by Jane O'Conner) and placed 2nd in the costume contest.
She is definitely fancy. She is definitely darling. She is definitely always going to be my girl.

Spanning the Spectrum

2008-05-29T11:07:00.000-07:00

Be still my soul. I just have to gush a bit.
Yesterday, upon request, I mailed a cd to a gentleman in California.
Today, a grandparent in my child's school said her grand-daughter was singing "Create in Me a Clean Heart" for her Kindergarten classroom talent show.

God is so cool! In the same week, music He gave me is reaching the "other coast" and little kindergartner's ears. May God be glorified in every location!

Extreme Spiritual Make-Over

2008-05-27T07:12:00.001-07:00

Just a shout of praise for a wonderful "Extreme Spiritual Make-Over" women's conference at Cliffside Baptist in Cliffside, NC. From the very start of the day, a feeling of expectation filled the room. God had a message for each one of the more-than-200 women in attendance. The Holy Spirit's leading was apparent.

Thank you to all of the ladies (and Pastor Joey) at Cliffside Baptist for an EXCELLENT job planning and serving. You were the instruments God used to meet needs in the hearts of His people. Thank you for your obedience.

Where do I start?

2008-05-26T11:10:00.000-07:00

I have hesitated to post because I wasn't sure where to start! On Sunday, May 18, I left for the Blue Ridge Christian Writer's Conference at Ridgecrest. With guarded hopes and faith in knowing I was in God's will (even though I didn't exactly know what that "will" was) - I was off to Black Mountain, NC.

Quickly I met two wonderful brunettes from SC. We had a familiar, kindred-spirit connection from the very beginning. My life is changed because of their influence.

Each meeting and session during the week was divinely appointed. Prepared with a proposal, and informed that most publishers don't accept them at these types of conferences, I began the process of telling about my book idea. One by one the publishers requested the proposal. Blown away by the thought of 3 interested publishers, I sought the input of a noted and experienced agent. He also thought the concept was clever and marketable.

In the middle of it all, the other book I "pitched" was a children's book. The market is "soft" and most publishers aren't buying children's books right now. While that was bummer, I was lifted by placing 2nd in the Children's Book Contest!

What does this all mean? Well, today, nothing yet. What could it mean? It could mean that in a matter of a few years the book I proposed at the 2008 BRCWC could be in mom's hands throughout the country. And based on how God has lined everything up, it wouldn't surprise me.

I am just so humbled by the whole experience. Why me? Why His Favor on me? My prayer is that I never step out of the shadow of His leading. If this book deal does actually happen, I want to be able to say that God was on every page...not Janet.

Who Can Find?

2008-05-15T06:20:00.000-07:00

A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.

She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.

When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity;

She can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Proverbs 31:10-31

When we look at the “Proverbs 31 woman” … it’s hard not to read her many capabilities, wipe our brow with a sign and then raise one of those brows with a little head bobble and think ... good for her. Most women I have spoken with have one of two responses: “I could never live up to that” or “That is unrealistic”. Defeat or dismiss? What’s your default reaction?
More to come…